Monday, November 22, 2010

Day +12 - Let the Recovery Begin!


Yesterday Jo's WBC count was 0.2 which isn't much different than 0.1. Rather than get anybody's hopes up, I waited to see today's count which came in at 0.7. This is definite evidence of engraftment, right on schedule with what MD Anderson told us to expect. If we follow the same pattern that we've seen with other 11th floor patients, she'll be in the mid 1s tomorrow and over 2 the next day.

A normal WBC count is between 4.0 and 11. For the last 6 years, Jo's WBC count has usually been between 2 and 3. That is considered low, but not life-threatening.

Jo's hair has started to fall out, and over the weekend we shaved it off. Jo had been asking for us to go ahead and shave it all off just so she didn't have to muster up the energy required to wash it. Of course, Jo looks just as fabulous bald as she does with hair. She also has an absolutely stunning ability to accept "what is".

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Waiting for Jo's WBC Count to Rise

About a week ago, Jo's White Blood Cell (WBC) Count got down to 0.1 indicating that her own Stem Cells had been all but destroyed by the chemotherapy. Until her WBC count starts coming up, every day is the same - it's all about keeping Jo somewhat comfortable. The chemo often causes sores in the patient's mouth or esophagus, making eating practically impossible.

Jo is also getting Nupogen shots, just like Eddie got before he donated his stem cells. The Nupogen causes bone pain that adds to the discomfort. Jo is getting pretty significant pain medication and nausea medication.

Within a few days, Jo's new stem cells are expected to "engraft" meaning they have worked their way into her bones and they will start producing new blood cells, the white ones being the most important. Those new white cells will repair the damage done by the chemo and they'll "clean up" the remnants of her old immune system.

As Jo's WBC Count increases she'll start to feel better every day and that is further enhanced by the emotional boost of seeing the WBC Count rise. It's somewhat hard to believe, but we are getting close to the home stretch of the hospital stay. Jo might not leave the hospital until early December, but once she gets to the point that each day is better than the previous day, it'll be quite a bit easier to see the light at the end of this first tunnel.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Changing of the Guard


Since October 31st, our very good friend Carol Morris from Denver has been with Jo on a daily basis. She helped Jo get situated at our apartment and then moved into the hospital. Every day she took notes on what the doctors and the nurses told us and every day she was by Jo's side encouraging Jo to take another walk around the block or go out to the lounge for a little social time. And yes, Carol has been responsible for all the Tweeting.

We have been very fortunate to have Carol with us these first three weeks and we are extremely grateful. Thank you Carol!

Last night my mom (Meema) flew into the Houston airport to take over the caregiving reins. As you know, she has been Jo's caregiver on many occasions over the past 5 years, but this will be the first time she gets to take care of Jo without also having Anna on her hip.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Day 8 - Knock On Wood

Is Jo having loads of fun? No. Would she rather be drinking girly drinks with umbrellas on a beach? Yes. Have the first 2 weeks been as bad as we had heard they would be? Absolutely not. Maybe Jo's side effects haven't been quite as intense as others may have experienced. Maybe MD Anderson is just that good. Maybe it's a bit of both.

Don't get me wrong. The nausea would have had me in the fetal position. Jo's a lot tougher than I am and MD Anderson is really good and proactive when treating her. Currently the toughest part is the mental exhaustion, often referred to as Chemo Brain. Focus is tough and conversation takes enormous energy. Still, if that is the worst of it, we'll take it.

So, I know y'all want updates and I almost didn't write this in fear of jinxing the situation. Do me a big favor and find some wood to knock on!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

2 Miles into the Marathon

I've never run a marathon. I think I could handle the physical challenge. The mental challenge is another story. Most of us are addicted to mental stimulation. We can't go 10 minutes on a treadmill without our iPod playing our favorite tunes to help us pass the time. Unfortunately, most marathons don't allow the use of iPods.

Jo has barely begun her marathon and the mental challenge has started to ramp up. She is handling the physical part quite well. She spent a lot more time out of the room today than she has in the past week or so. Her energy is very low and is most evident in her thought processes which are currently very linear - just not enough energy to multi-task.

The mental marathon is somewhat different. Day after day is spent in the same room, the same hallways and the same lounge - all while pulling around the same chemo pole. In the not too distant future, we'll leave the hospital and quickly forget how long a day can be. For now, life has given us an amazing opportunity to practice patience. Nelson Mandela spent 27 years unjustly imprisoned. Surely we can survive another 10 to 14 days on the 11th floor of MD Anderson.

Monday, November 15, 2010

I'll Bet You Didn't Know...

As is true of most Minnesota kids, we ate a lot of corn growing up. Corn fields are quite abundant in Minnesota and we did our best to support the local economy. I always thought it was an extremely special treat when we had creamed corn. Just thinking about it today brings back great memories.

When we checked into the hospital 2 weeks ago we were told that for about 2 days after receiving her transplant Jo would smell like creamed corn. No way!!! Having a somewhat entrepreneurial mind, my first thought was, "Why hasn't Gucci thought of this?"

Jo did radiate the sweet smell of creamed corn for about 48 hours after her transplant, but maybe since it was Jo, I didn't think too much of it. However, now is a different story. We often walk laps for exercise on the 11th floor of MD Anderson and we occasionally run across the smell of creamed corn. Instantly, we look around to see if we can identify the patient who must have just got their new stem cells.

By the way...the 11th floor of MD Anderson has 52 patient rooms and every room has a bone marrow or stem cell transplant patient in it. They often have as many as 70 to 80 transplant patients at any one time and very soon, the transplant teams will get 26 more dedicated rooms on another floor.

Jo's status has not changed much and that is what we want to hear. She'll need another 1 to 2 weeks for her blood counts to start coming up and her strength to get to a point where we can take her back to our apartment. Any blog-worthy change of status before then would probably be a hiccup in the road, so keep an eye on the tweets over to the right, but don't be alarmed if there are no major health related blog updates.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Day 3 - Making Friends

Do you have problems? Would you like to know how to make all of your current problems disappear? Go out and get some bigger problems. If life hasn't handed you something like a bone marrow transplant, go out and take something on - raise a $1M for cancer research, reform the criminal justice system or find ways to help the homeless off the streets. If you can afford it, go to Africa and volunteer at an orphanage - if you live in Denver, I'll set up lunch with my client that has been to Africa and her stories will melt your heart. When you take on something really big, the small stuff disappears.

The most enjoyable part of our experience so far has been meeting our new friends out in the patient lounge. First there's Gerry from El Paso. Even behind a mask this guy has a smile that just lights me up! He is only on Day 5 and I can't even tell he's sick. I met his son today who is in medical school two blocks from here at Baylor School of Medicine.

Earlier today I met Temple, who Jo met in exercise class last week. Temple's mom gets her hair cut in Lufkin, TX by the same woman that cuts Jo's mom's hair. Temple's sister works with the mom of Jo's best friend in Lufkin.

Last night, one of the patients was walking exercise laps with her friend and they had their ipods cranking. They weren't really walking. They were dancing down the hallway and they didn't care one bit what anybody thought. On my way out of the building a couple of guys were watching television in the lounge and I commented on how good they looked. Their eyes opened wide and one guy said, "I've been here about 30 days and I'm getting out soon."

There have been plenty of others and one thing is common among them all. Every one of them has a positive attitude. They all have some pretty big challenges in front of them and it would appear as if none of them have any of the small problems that most of us struggle with daily.

So if it feels like you're walking uphill both ways to work every day, go out and find a mountain to climb. I'll bet your daily commute will start to feel like a walk in the park.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Don't Worry, It'll Get Worse

I was wrong in regard to the end of the chemo. Jo got a small dose of chemo today and she'll get a few more small doses on the 13th, the 16th and the 21st. Jo is one of the few people on the floor that still has hair and they want make absolutely sure it falls out!

Actually, the chemo has a different purpose. As Jo's new stem cells start producing white cells, the chemo is used to calm those new white cells. Without the chemo they would start running around like little warriors going crazy wreaking too much havoc on Jo's already beat up insides.

Jo told Dr. Andersson today that her throat is a little scratchy. In his soft, but authoritative European voice he reassured her, "Don't worry, it'll get worse." Unfortunately, everyone "in the know" seems 100% confident that Jo's comfort level will go down before it goes up.

Stay tuned. This movie has started a little slow, but those that have seen it before say the action picks up soon.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Day Zero - Happy (New) Birthday Jo!


Jo received her new stem cells today at about 11am. The entire process took only 5 minutes. When they pulled out the little bag of stem cells I thought for sure they had lost 3/4 of Uncle Eddie's donation. The nurse assured me that what we needed was in the bag.

Jo slept most of the afternoon, but she was up and about by dinner. Over the next 14 days, it is critical that she spend as much time as possible out of her bed while she is awake. Significant amounts of lying down creates an environment for pneumonia to develop. When we stand up or sit up, our lungs expand more when we breath and they stay cleaner and healthier.

The chemo has destroyed Jo's original stem cells, so right now she is not producing many white cells, red cells or platelets. For the first time in several years, Jo received a platelet transfusion today and she'll start getting red cell transfusions soon. White cells do not live long enough outside the host to be transfused. Sometime around Day 14, we expect to see Jo's new stem cells start producing white blood cells.

White cells are pretty important in our daily lives. They are the "helpers" that fight all the bad things that try to attack our bodies and they "fix" all the things that need fixin' as they say in Texas. That's what makes the next 14 days so critical. Without white cells, Jo's body just doesn't have the ability to fight off much of anything.

Looking at Jo right now, it seems like she'll be ready to go home in a day or two. It's hard to believe that is not the truth!

Monday, November 08, 2010

Bed Alert, Bed Alert

Just when I think I've seen it all, Jo gets put on "bed alert". Her bed has been physically alarmed so if she gets up, sirens go off and the nurses come charging in. That probably explains how "out of it" Jo has been today. Dr. Andersson, the attending physician, promised tomorrow will be better.

Jo started anti-rejection drugs today. Yesterday I made it sound like she takes these drugs for just 2 days. She'll actually take some sort of anti-rejection drug every day for the forseeable future.

Sunday, November 07, 2010

Chemo Complete

Jo got her 4th and last dose of chemo this morning. We all know somebody that has cancer who maybe had chemo off and on for many months. This is a little different. Jo got 4 hefty doses over 4 days and we hope never to experience chemo again. A cancer patient has cancer cells potentially throughout their body that need to be killed. For the most part, Jo does not. Jo's chemo is designed to attack and kill cells in her body that are actively dividing and multiplying. This is primarily in the bone marrow.

Unfortunately, chemotherapy is a lot like sending a laser guided missile to destroy a weapons factory hidden in the middle of a residential neighborhood. No matter how good the technology, the neighborhood is going to suffer some damage. Jo is starting to feel that now.

I asked the doctor how the chemo knows not to destroy other things like our heart or liver. He said those organs don't have many cells that are actively dividing. Unfortunately, the stomach does. I guess this is why the chemo causes pretty significant nausea.

I asked Jo how to describe her current status. I gave her the options of "slightly unpleasant" or "moderately unpleasant". She smiled and came back with "rather unpleasant". We've seen a lot in the last 6 years including a few times where a smile was physically not possible, so I have to say we are doing pretty good.

Tomorrow and Tuesday Jo will get anti-rejection drugs to get ready for her new Stem Cells on Wednesday. A lot of people have asked for the date of Jo's "surgery". There is no "surgery" involved with any of this. Everything is done through Jo's blood stream.

Wednesday will be referred to as Day 0 as we count the days Jo has lived with her new Stem Cells. Every patient is different and there is no universal magic number, but 100 Days is the goal everybody keeps their eye on. At 100 Days, each patient is considered to have crossed over a fairly significant hump.

Thursday, November 04, 2010

Jo - 1, Chemo - 0

Round 1 goes to Jo. She had her first batch of Chemo this morning. When I saw her between 9am and 11am, she felt great. Jo's Nurse Practitioner's name is Tracy and she used to work for Dr. Alvarez back when Jo was first diagnosed 6 years ago. Tracy did say that Jo may not start to have side effects until next week. I'm very happy that she'll be comfortable for this Saturday's BIG Air Force / ARMY football game!

I took the shuttle bus from our apartment to the hospital for the first time last night. Only one other lady was on the bus with me. Her husband had just received his Stem Cells earlier in the day. Believe it or not, they live in Parker, CO...no more than about 15 minutes from us!

Wednesday, November 03, 2010

Rain Delay

With the World Series ending earlier this week, I'll bet you thought my baseball analogies were over. Not so fast!

It did rain all day in Houston, but that is not what caused the delay. When Jo checked into the hospital last night she had a slight fever. Anna had been sick on Sunday and Monday and Jo more than likely got a little bug from Anna. Jo has gotten antibiotics for the last 24 hours and her chemo has been pushed back to tomorrow.

The schedule for the next 7 days goes like this: 4 days of chemo, 2 days of anti-rejection drugs and then the Stem Cells go in. Right now, Day Zero is expected to be next Wednesday. Day Zero is the day the patient gets the new Stem Cells and many patients refer to Day Zero as their 2nd Birthday.

Monday, November 01, 2010

Extraordinary Greatness


Have you been watching the World Series? Don’t you wish life was like batting practice instead of the real game? In batting practice, your coach throws “cupcakes” right down the middle, you hit almost every one out of the park and all your buddies tell you how awesome you just hit the ball! In the real game, the opposing pitcher throws a curve ball on the outside corner and then a slider high and inside. At that point, you’ve got two choices… 1) go back to the dugout and whine and complain about the terrible pitches you’re getting…or…2) hit the ball out of the park anyway.

On October 1, 1932 in Game 3 of the 1932 World Series, Babe Ruth pointed to the center field bleachers, letting the Chicago Cubs know where he was going to put the next pitch. On the very next pitch, Ruth blasted a 440 foot home run to the deepest part of center field. Jo checks into the hospital tomorrow night and the pitches start coming on Wednesday. As I sit here today, having considered all there is to consider…I’m pointing to the center field bleachers.

We have the very best transplant facility in the world. We have a perfect bone marrow match. We have the absolute best situation for Anna. We have tremendous support from the great city of Denver and dancers all over the world. We have incredible family support. But most of all…we have Jo. Anyone who doesn’t see the next pitch being hit to the center field bleachers just doesn’t know Jo.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Donkey Kick to the Chest

Jo got her CVC put in today and afterward I asked her how she felt. She said, "I feel like one of Uncle Eddie's donkeys just kicked me in the chest." By the time we talked, Jo had taken some good pain medication, so we actually had a pretty good laugh. The doctor had told her that every now and then the CVC goes up into the neck instead of down into the heart where it belongs. If that happens, it has to be taken out and put back in. Of course, after he said that Jo was absolutely sure she could feel it going up into her neck. An x-ray later confirmed it was where it needed to be.

Tomorrow Jo gets a very small mini-dose of chemo and then she has her blood drawn every hour for the next 10 hours. They do this to make sure she doesn't have any reactions like swollen hands or numb-tongue (as was experienced by Capt. Kirk in the new Star Trek movie that I watched 8 times last weekend).

Jo and Eddie got a tour of the Stem-Cell Transplant floor today. Jo said everybody looked like they were doing pretty good. It appears the anticipation of a transplant may be quite a bit worse than the transplant itself. Let's hope so.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

The Gift of Life


Eddie spent most of today hooked up to an apheresis machine. As is typical for members of the Thompson family, Eddie went well above and beyond the call of duty. When the final tally was complete, Eddie had donated over 16 MILLION stem cells. I hope he has a few left for himself!

Tomorrow is a big day for Jo. She'll have a Central Venous Catheter (CVC) inserted into her chest. Similar to the PICC line she had almost 5 years ago, this device will be used to administer medication and draw blood over the next several months.

This Sunday, we'll move into an apartment just down the street from MD Anderson. As soon as we are settled in, I will post a local address where notes and cards can be sent.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Kirk to Enterprise...Beam Me Up


For all you husbands out there, if your wife has not yet determined her Halloween costume, I highly recommend the Lt. Uhura outfit from Star Trek. Does this look like a woman 10 days away from being admitted to the hospital for a Stem Cell Transplant?

Friday, October 22, 2010

Where Have all the Merry-Go-Rounds Gone

Eddie starts taking Neupogen shots tomorrow, twice per day. He'll take shots for 4 days that cause his stem cells to jump out of his bone marrow and into his blood stream. On Tuesday, he'll go through a 4 to 6 hour process where blood comes out of one arm, goes through a swirly machine and then back into his other arm. The stem cells are separated from his blood via cetrifugal force, much like the merry-go-round Anna and I rode in Salina, KS, just before she crashed on her bike and looked like a baseball player that had slid head first into home plate. Those stem cells are then thrown in a big freezer, possibly next to a few pints of Ben and Jerry's with my name on them, until Jo is ready for them in a couple of weeks.

Jo doesn't have to go back to MD Anderson until next week. For now, the focus shifts to tomorrow's big pumpkin carving party and a visit from Eddie's family who have all driven down from Lufkin to spend the weekend with us.

So, Anna and I really did play on the Merry-Go-Round in Salina and that is the first time I can remember seeing a Merry-Go-Round in many years. Does your local park have one? I'll bet not. Have they been deemed unsafe? Have they been banished to protect us from hurting ourselves? No more Merry-Go-Rounds. No more riding in the back of the pick-up truck. No more drinking out of the waterhose. No more sticking our tongues to the flagpole in the middle of a Minnesota winter. Today's kids might be safer, but we did have a lot of fun back then.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Uncle Eddie to the Rescue!

I imagine few (if any) experiences in life can compare with the opportunity to save the life of another. Without Eddie's bone marrow, we would have had to rely on the worldwide repository where finding a match is not guaranteed and even then, an unrelated match is never as good as a sibling match.

Jo and Eddie spent most of today at MD Anderson doing tests and paperwork. Tomorrow Jo has her favorite procedure - the dreaded bone marrow biopsy - and yes it is with sedation. I'll see Jo tomorrow at the hospital so I'll get more details.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Stress & Anxiety Start to Build



Jo was in Chicago last weekend for the Windy City Line Dance event and she had a fabulous time. She is all settled in here in Houston with Anna and she has started getting 7-day reminder emails from MD Anderson. Eddie will join us on Monday and Tuesday we hit the ground running.

How is Jo? As calm and peaceful as ever.

How am I? Well, I'm a nervous wreck and I'm starting to buckle under the stress... Several people have commented on how much they like my writing and I'm terrified that I won't be able to perform this time around. It's been over 18 months since Jo's last major surgery. What if I'm not funny this time around? What if I've lost my mo-jo? Yeah...I hit the ball out of the park the last couple of years. So what? The Minnesota TWINS won the 87 and 91 World Series. That's history! Currently, they've lost TWELVE postseason baseball games in a row and their fans (me included) have all but given up on them. What if I disappoint my fans just like the TWINS have disappointed all of us Minnesotans?

With the TWINS early exit from postseason baseball, you're probably wondering what Jo will now be doing on November 3rd? I really don't know. All I do know is we won't be watching the Yankees.

Monday, October 11, 2010

Anna's New Routine

Last night, Anna and I galloped into Texas and life changed in a major way. One can only imagine going from being an only child to being one of FOUR!

To keep tabs on Anna, visit www.DavidAndBeLynda.com

Tuesday, October 05, 2010

A Few Key Dates


October 11th - Anna Starts Kindergarten with the Triplets in Houston

October 12th - Jo Arrives in Houston

October 19th - Jo and Eddie Start Testing at MD Anderson

November 2nd - Jo Checks in to the Hospital at MD Anderson

November 3rd - Jo rests peacefully as she watches the Minnesota Twins win the 2010 World Series with a grand-slam home run in Game 6 which goes down in history as the greatest World Series game ever played!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

$12,423.40 Raised at Jo's Kickoff Party

We expected a great party. We expected a lot of people. We expected some incredible dancing. We didn't expect exceeding all expectations!

Thank you to all who came and also to all who supported us from afar. We are touched by the overwhelming generosity and kindness we have seen in the past few weeks and we are forever grateful.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Transplant Kickoff Party - Huge Success!

Last night we had the biggest party Centennial, CO has seen in probably a very long time. We did shut it down at midnight, but I'm sure the neighbors were starting to wonder what was going on. Just a few of the preliminary numbers:

Roughly 350 people

7 DJs

An army of volunteers

80 lbs. of chicken

35 lbs. of green beans

27 lbs. of fried rice

10 lbs. of lo mein

4 sheet cakes

By the way...not a single pound was gained by any attendee. Putting that many people into a moderately sized dance area kept the air conditioners working overtime. Temperatures still rose to almost 80 degrees at times allowing each and every guest to sweat off every calorie consumed during the dinner hour!

Jo's new line dance, Shanghai Surprise (choreographed with Rachael McEnaney) was a huge hit. We had an amazing demonstration from Jordan and Jessica and even a surprise performance from a barbershop quartet. Dancing went from 2 in the afternoon until just after midnight and Jo got to show off her new "do".

We have many, many people to thank: Scott and AJ, Scott and Bonnie, Eddie and Wendy, Patti, Dave and Ivory, Farrell, Tom, Monty and Kristin, Troy and Emily, Jim, Erin, Robin, Vern and Judy, Pat and Kevin, Jordan and Jessica, Taami, Dana, Kimberly, Vicki and more. A special thanks to the army of volunteers that helped with setup, teardown, food preparation and fundraising.

I also want to specifically thank all of the professional dancers and instructors that came. We had a tremendous amount of talent in one location for a day and that is a key reason why the event was so successful. We appreciate your friendship and your support!

As soon as our number crunchers are finished doing what they do, I'll have more statistics for you regarding the fundraising and I'll even see what I can do about posting a picture of Jo's new haircut for all to see.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Save the Date... Saturday, Sept. 18th

Jo Thompson Szymanski Bone Marrow Transplant Kickoff Party!

2:00pm – 5:00pm - Line Dance Party with Jo

5:00pm to Closing - Full Dinner Buffet Provided

5:00pm to 6:30pm - Social Hour

6:30pm to 7:30pm - Jo Teaches “Shoes of Another Man” WCS Line Dance

7:30pm to 10:30pm - West Coast Swing, Salsa, Country Open Dancing

- Multiple Dance Rooms with Multiple DJs
- Special College Football Social Room for the Non-Dancers!

Recommended Donation: $20 per person
Stay as Long as You Like

Jo’s transplant will require a 4 to 6 month stay in the Houston area. Proceeds will be used to help cover her expenses. Any proceeds not used for Jo’s medical expenses will be donated to the Aplastic Anemia & MDS International Foundation (www.AAMDS.org)

Location:

Centerstage Starz Dance Studio
8150 S. University Blvd. Unit 120 - Centennial, CO 80122
NE corner of University Blvd. & County Line Rd.
(Next to “Pump It Up”)

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Decision Made...No Looking Back

We did get the results of the MD Anderson bone marrow biopsy. Monosony 7 showed up in 50% of Jo’s cells. 50% is really the same as 60%, which isn’t much different really than 20%. Jo’s bone marrow is moving in the wrong direction.

On Friday, Jo saw another Hematologist/Oncologist here in Colorado. We had met this lady one time before when she was covering for Dr. Alvarez at one of our local hospitals. She appears to be somewhat close to Jo’s age and she has a wonderful connection when she speaks to you. She looked at Jo and said, “You have flawed bone marrow that is now again showing signs of breaking down. I think you will have to get a transplant eventually no matter what you do today. If it were me, I’d do it now.”

There was much more to this conversation than just the words. There was a woman to woman connection. Her words seemed to go right to Jo’s heart and I could tell Jo’s decision making process was coming to an end…the anxiety of having to make a tough decision had been replaced with the peace of having made it.

Our schedule is still being worked out with MD Anderson in Houston, but our hope is to start Jo’s transplant in mid October and be back in Denver by February or March. MD Anderson does roughly 600 transplants per year and they are considered some of the world’s foremost experts. Jo’s family is just 2 hours north or Houston, which is a huge help when it comes to the support necessary to get through a procedure like this.

And what about Anna? Anna is going to live in the Magical Kingdom at Disney World the entire time we are in Houston. Of course I’m kidding, but it’s not actually that far from the truth. Our wonderful friends, David and BeLynda who live about 30 minutes north of MD Anderson have volunteered to keep Anna while we are in Houston. Now to the Disney World part…

David and BeLynda have TRIPLETS (2 boys and 1 girl) that are just 9 months older than Anna and they also started Kindergarten earlier this month. Having triplets requires a lot of structure, discipline and a bit of help. David and BeLynda make that part look easy. In addition to that they are two of the most loving and creative parents we have ever met.

A brand new sister and 2 brothers is pretty “Magical” for a 5-year old, but there is a lot more to this story and I’ll let that unfold as we head into the fall.

For the record, Jo’s Monosomy 7 is the primary concern right now. Since the bone marrow produces our blood elements, all malfunctions are considered very serious. However, there is still a spectrum of bad to really bad. Aplastic Anemia is at the left end of that spectrum. It’s bad, but it’s nowhere near the end of the world. Monosomy 7 and some other things starting to show up in Jo’s marrow indicate that Jo is moving to the right. The stuff in the middle is not good, but on the far right is Leukemia. We’ve talked to the best doctors in the world, and the consensus is that with a perfect bone marrow match, the time to transplant is now.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Waiting...Waiting...

Last week, Jo saw Dr. Anderlini in Houston and we really didn't learn anything we didn't already know. MD Anderson pulled their own bone marrow sample from the opposite hip from where the May and July marrow was pulled. When we get the results of that sample back, we'll have news. Until then, we are just trying to get settled into the Kindergarten routine!

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Kindergarten Starts Tuesday!


Anna starts Kindergarten on Tuesday. She learned a lot in pre-school, but probably the most important thing she learned is...

"You git what you git and you never throw a fit."

Doesn't that pretty much say it all?

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

A Comforting Story

Yesterday, Jo and I talked to a 52-year guy in Denver who, on the phone, sounds like a non-stop bundle of energy. 14 years ago, he was diagnosed with Stage-4 Leukemia and he was given a 6% chance of survival. He did an autologous bone marrow transplant (his own marrow) and it worked! 3 years later he relapsed and had Stage-4 Leukemia again. He then got an allogeneic transplant (using his brother's marrow) and again it worked! Today he takes a little medication for cholesterol, but nothing that would be considered related to his transplant.

The story gets even better. He says he was told by many people how tough the proceure was going to be. He said he did get some graft vs. host disease and one time his temperature hit 106 degrees, but overall neither time was as difficult as he was led to believe. He said that if he had to do it again, he could do it standing on his head!

Many people think walking around on broken hips for two years would be an extremely tough experience. For me, it probably would have been. For Jo, she made it look like a cake walk. So much of life is a matter of attitude and the circumstances put before us are rarely as grave as we make them out to be. If I had to bet on anybody setting the new all-time bone marrow transplant recovery timeframe record, I would bet on Jo.

We did see Dr. Anderlini today at MD Anderson in Houston and Jo is scheduled for more tests tomorrow. More details to come...

By the way...Dr. Anderlini has not aged a single day in 5 years...neither has Jo.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Monosomy 7

Jo’s results have come back from the NIH and 60% of her cells are testing positive for Monosomy 7. As expected, the NIH is recommending a Bone Marrow Transplant. HOWEVER, Jo’s day to day life is extremely normal and quite pleasant, so there is NO rush. In other words, we’re not “freaking out” and we request you also remain calm. (One of these days, I have to get a video of Anna telling a story where she says something like…”I was riding my bike down the street and a dog came up and I was ‘freaking out’. There’s something very cute about a 5-year old thinking she was freaking out.)

Jo is in a very unique situation right now. Think of it this way…how many of you have had a bone marrow sample taken recently just so tests could be run to check for chromosomal abnormalities? I’m guessing…none. Jo’s yearly tests have allowed us to find the problem before it has gotten bad enough that it affects her daily life. The gives us time to explore options and do some research.

Next week, Jo will head back to MD Anderson in Houston and talk to Dr. Anderlini. Do you remember him? His famous quote was, “Don’t ask the barber if you need a haircut.” Dr. Anderlini is a BMT specialist at MD Anderson, which is considered one of the leading BMT locations in the world. We fully expect Dr. Anderlini to recommend a transplant. The point of the trip is to let MD Anderson do all of their preliminary tests and to get reacquainted with their procedures.

Will Jo get a transplant? We are not 100% certain that she will, but we have been told to restart our communication with the various BMT options – MD Anderson, Dr. Childs at the NIH, etc. If Jo does get a transplant, when will it be? Again, we don’t know the answer. Because her bone marrow is doing a good job of producing the blood elements necessary to sustain life without transfusions, nobody is rushing off to the hospital yet.

And then there is Dr. Alvarez. A transplant is a very serious decision and once you go down that road you never look back. Dr. Alvarez has not yet recommended a transplant. If he did, we would probably be making arrangements right now. Dr. Alvarez is a firm believer that every alternative should be explored before deciding to transplant and he is doing that research now. We are extremely lucky to have him in our back pocket. His recommendation to the NIH was a tremendous recommendation 6 years ago and if there is any alternative that merits consideration today, Dr. Alvarez will find it.

I'll report back after I hear what Jo finds out in Houston...

Friday, July 16, 2010

Jo's PNH Numbers

Over the past 4 years, we have seen Jo's PNH figures drop to the point that she will now start working her way off her blood thinner, Coumadin. The NIH tracks "PNH Clones" as a percentage of the total number of cells in her blood. They look at Red Blood Cells and Neutrophils, which are the most abundant type of white blood cell.

4 years ago, 43% of Jo's Red Blood Cells and 86% of her Neutrophils had the PNH problem. Last year, those numbers had dropped to 39% and 63%. This past May those numbers dropped again to 19% and 43%. The doctors at the NIH say that once you go below 50% blood thinners are not necessary.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Back to the NIH

Back in May, Jo and I visited the NIH for her 4-Year Checkup. Every time we go, they take a bone marrow sample and run a multitude of tests. One test is to identify how many of Jo’s red blood cells have the PNH clone. Another test they do is to look at 20 of Jo’s cells and analyze the chromosomes of each cell. “20 cells” doesn’t sound like a lot, but evidently, it’s enough and it’s a “laborious” process.

About 3 weeks ago, Jo got a call from Dr. Sheinberg at the NIH. The good news is that Jo’s PNH clone has dropped below 50% which means it is okay for her to start working her way off Coumadin. This was tremendous news! Once she is off Coumadin, she would be literally “drug free”. The bad news was that he wanted us to come back to the NIH so they could take another bone marrow sample.

4 of Jo’s cells (20%) were missing Chromosome #7. The doctors referred to this as Monosomy 7. Her doctors want the bone marrow tests done again to confirm the results of the last test. As Dr. Alvarez would say, “Three things could happen.” 1) The chromosomal abnormality could go away. This does happen in a certain number of people. 2) The chromosomal abnormality could come back at 20% again. If this is the case, we’ll go back in 6 months to have her bone marrow checked again. 3) The chromosomal abnormality could increase. If this were to happen, the NIH would most likely recommend a bone marrow transplant.

Don’t forget that Jo’s brother is a perfect bone marrow match. The NIH considers this Jo’s “Ace in the Hole.” In just the 5 years that we have been going to the NIH, they have made amazing advancements in their bone marrow transplant research. They are not shy about telling us that if Jo ever needed a transplant, they feel she would do extremely well.

The doctors were very clear that they are not fans of Monosomy 7. They were also very clear that they were surprised that Jo’s bone marrow looks so good considering the chromosome abnormality. We should have the results of this latest test in about 2 to 3 weeks.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

4-Year Checkup at NIH


Jo and I just got home from Washington, D.C. Denver greeted us warmly with a May snowstorm to make the trip from the airport just a little more exciting that we would have wished for. We want to express a special "Thank You" to our wonderful neighbors Debbie & Thompson and their family (especially Christie) who once again took care of Anna for a few days. Fortunately Anna was sleeping when we picked her up, otherwise she probably wouldn't have wanted to leave!

When Jo had her initial consultation this morning, the word "normal" was used about 14 times. They are extremely happy with Jo's progress and they even referred to her as "the poster child for Aplastic Anemia".

After a sedated bone marrow biopsy, we went back up to the clinic to see Dr. Young and Dr. Sheinfeld. We had hoped they would tell us we could put off our next NIH visit for 2 years, but that is not the case...and oddly enough, that is actually good news.

Jo's PNH clone percentage has been decreasing each year and they expect this year's numbers to be even better - it'll take a couple of days for those tests to be completed and the results to be added to Jo's file. Dr. Young wants Jo to come back next year because he thinks there is a reasonable chance that her PNH clone will decrease enough that she may eventually be able to stop taking Coumadin. After we get this year's numbers, I'll explain the PNH measurements in more detail.

Sunday, January 03, 2010

The Jo Thompson Fan Club

After 3 months of intense research and a little help from various government agencies, we have determined the winner of our contest to find the next President of the Jo Thompson Fan Club. We had three people claim to be the winner. As it turns out, Terry S. from Eagan, MN ended up being my brother. I can't believe I didn't figure that out earlier.

Now, regarding the other two claims...I have no idea how this can happen, but we did have two people capture screen shots showing that they were visitor number 100,000. My first idea was to have a tie-breaker - maybe something like a fire starting contest like they do on SURVIVOR when they need to break a tie. Jo, being the eternal ambassador of good-will suggested a much easier solution. Since one winner lives in the U.S. and one winner lives in Canada, we will have a President of the U.S. Chapter and another president of the International Chapter. Of course, I will personally remain president of the Polish Chapter.

And the winners are..........

U.S. Chapter

Betty Sethman
Nacogdoches, Texas

Jo met Betty and her sister Mary on a trip to Lufkin, TX for Christmas. Mary's niece, Yalonda is Jo's sister-in-law.

International Chapter

Deb Grimshire
Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada

Jo and I first met Deb at several dance events we attended at the Shooting Star Casino in Northern Minnesota back in the late 90s. The Shooting Star would pick us up at the Fargo, ND airport in a stretch limo and drive us an hour to the Casino. The dancing was always fun, but the parts we remember most are the endless hours laughing with Deb and her dance partner Glenn.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

CONTROVERSY!


The following screen shot was submitted by Terry S. from Eagan, MN. Our expert team of forensic scientists and computer nerds are still working on determining the validity of this entry. As soon as we know more, we will be back in touch.

Monday, September 14, 2009

And the winner is...um...the winners are?

Oops! Apparently due to hanging chads, we had multiple emails last night claiming to be our next president. A full scale investigating into these matters will commence immediately and your winner(s) will be announced shortly. Thank you for your patience.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Cutting the Proverbial Umbilical Cord

Jo saw Dr. Alvarez today and she received big, big, biggity big news. She doesn't have to see him again for 2 months! She'll still pop by to get her blood drawn every 3 weeks or so, but that's no more inconvenient than a quick trip through the drive thru for McNuggets and a Milk. What more can I say? I think this chapter is officially closed.

Stay tuned for previews of next week's show!

Friday, June 19, 2009

We Need a New President...

No, this is not a political commentary. Within the next few months, we will appoint a new President of the Jo Thompson Fan Club. There are no duties involved and I doubt if the title will get you a discount on coffee at Denny's. However, there will be a nice prize package.

Our new president will get his or her picture posted on the blog. If the winner lives in the Denver area or wants to come to the Denver area, we will have you to our house for brunch at which time we will have a small inauguration ceremony. The new President will also receive one free hour of dance instruction with Jo. With no duties to be performed, that's not a bad deal.

So, how will our new President be chosen? At the bottom of this blog, we keep track of the number of visitors to our site - currently a little over 96,000. To be selected as our new President, all you have to do is be visitor number 100,000 - and you have to have physical proof. Take a screen shot showing the 100,000. If you don't know how to take a screen shot, take a digital photo. Send the picture to tim-and-jo@comcast.net. Once the authenticity of your picture is validated, we will contact you to get a picture for the press release.

Jo is doing incredible. The amount of PNH in her blood is less than it was last year. This could mean nothing or it could mean that her body is going to correct the situation over time. Only time will tell.

Jo is in Indianapolis this weekend at John Robinson's line dance event. People that see her dance absolutely cannot believe she had all those surgeries. In the next 5 weeks, we have 3 of our biggest dance events here in Colorado and Jo will be a major participant in all three. Next weekend is the Colorado Country Classic and then in July we have Pikes Peak Line Dance or Bust and Swingtime in the Rockies.

Colorado Country Classic

Pikes Peak Line Dance or Bust

Swingtime in the Rockies

Anna turned 4 earlier this week. She got a bicycle for her birthday and riding her bicycle is consuming her life.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Back from the NIH


Jo and I had a short, but successful trip to the NIH. I had time to make a couple of new friends in the clinic as we joked around about their upcoming un-sedated bone marrow biopsies. Ralph - you're a better man than I!!!

I had hoped to meet the coach of Olympic Swimmer, Dara Torres. He did have an appointment on the same day we were there, but our meeting was thwarted by the swine flu. When we arrived, Jo was asked if she had any cold symptoms. She said she had the sniffles. They immediately whisked us off into isolation. I guess you can't be too careful in a room full of people with somewhat compromised immune systems.

Really, there is nothing much to report. We will go back again each of the next two years and then we can cut back to every other year.

On a more interesting note, this weekend I attended a small gathering of Colorado PNH patients at Swedish Hospital. Jo was out of town teaching dance in Sacramento and she could not attend. The event was put on by a local hematologiest and cosponsored by the company that manufactures Soliris, the $480,000 drug used to treat PNH. I left my credit card at home.

I met 3 other people that have PNH and they are all using Soliris. I got to talk to two of the three for quite a while and they were both having significant difficulties caused by PNH and Soliris has been a tremendous help. One of the men has been on Soliris for 2 years and it is still working great. The other guy started to regress after being on the drug for 18 months. Unfortunately, I had to leave early before we got into the discussion of how to pay for it.

Jo's PNH does need to be monitored, but it is not disrupting her life. For now, we are happy that Soliris is available and every month that goes by means another month of real-world experience for the drug. We are excited about this "support group" and we look forward to future meetings. I learned more about PNH in those 2 hours on Saturday than I have in the past 3 years.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Next Up - NIH - 3 Year Checkup

In two weeks, Jo and I head to Washington, D.C. for her 3-year checkup. I had to check the calendar to make sure that was correct. It seems like about 10 years ago. We expect Jo to get great marks. At the same time, Dr. Alvarez has given us about 1000 questions to ask. Jo is doing phenomenal, but her "system" still a handful of little glitches. It's nice to know that Dr. Alvarez is always keeping a pulse on the small stuff, especially since we tend not to think about it at all.

We want to send out a special Thank You to Bullet Dawg. Random acts of kindness really are what make the world a better place. You have inspired us to look for places where we can go out and touch people's lives unexpectedly.

Friday, March 20, 2009

We'll raise up our glasses...

This morning, Anna and I were driving to Anna's school and on the radio, Toby Keith was singing...

We'll raises up our glasses
Against evil forces
Singing, "Whiskey for my men, beer for my horses!"

Jo was in her car driving right next to us and Anna was waving fast and furious. For the first time in 4 years (other than Colorado, New Mexico and Japan), Jo went to the airport to go and teach at a dance event. She will spend the weekend in Atlanta at the Peach State UCWDC event. For many years, Jo was the primary line dance instructor at this event that typcially brings in an extremely high number of line dancers.

It's often difficult to remember, but the past 4 years has, at times, been a bit inconvenient. As Jo drove off this morning, it really rang true that it is time to raise up our glasses and celebrate victory. 2009 has seeemed incredibly "normal".

Jo's counts continue to hold steady at the low end of normal and her shoulder gets better every day. She gets her blood checked every 3 weeks and her visits to Dr. Kelly are fairly rare. Her shoulder isn't quite ready for pull-ups, but pull-ups aren't much fun anyway.

So, if you're out and about this weekend, raise up your glasses and think of Jo. If whiskey is your thing, be my guest. Maybe slip a beer or two into your neighbor's dog dish. As for Anna, she'll probably go with a cold milk in a tall pink sippy cup.

Wednesday, February 04, 2009

Where in the World Should Jo Go?

Jo's shoulder is coming along fantastically! Last week, our good friend Wendy Moy was at our house. She had shoulder surgery back in August. Wendy and Jo were both on the floor practicing their physical therapy stretches. Pretty soon, Anna was on the floor also stretching her arm over her head. If I could have only gotten a picture!

Jo saw Dr. Kelly last week and everything looks great. Dr. Kelly asked Jo to come back in 3 months. THREE MONTHS??? Talk about separation anxiety! Dr. Alvarez sightings have also become much less frequent.

Since Jo is on the mend, she and I have talked about her possibly travelling to a few dance events in the next 12 months, but where should she go? We need your help. If you want to see Jo at an event in the next 12 months (or so) please let us know where you would like to see her. You can post your desires here on the blog or send us an email.

By the way...if you are a member of the "I hope Tim gets hit by a bus" fan club, your votes will not be counted.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas!

‘Twas the night before Christmas and although it was late
I made time to watch CNBC’s “Review of ‘08”

Merrill and Lehman, Bear Stearns and more
How did we survive this financial downpour?

Even at Church, mention was made
These trying financial times have everyone afraid.

Please remember it’s all in your head
If you look another direction, green might appear red.

To these financial problems, our family isn’t immune
But Jo’s health has us singing a very different tune.

For the first time in four very long years
The outlook for Jo’s health may bring you to tears.

The surgeries are finished and her blood counts look great
We’ll never forget the Christmas of ’08.

So, if your 401(k) has you feeling kind of down
Go to the nearest hospital and just look around.

I know it’s hard to lose what you’ve worked for so long
But you can’t take it with you after you’re gone.

Now, I’m not saying you should give up on your dreams
Many games are won by underdog teams.

We all face setbacks in this game we call life
And the most important lesson of all, I learned from my wife.

No matter what hurdles are thrown in your way
You can still choose to have an extraordinary day.

If you do this each and every day of your years
An extraordinary life is what eventually appears.

From our family to yours, may 2009 be out of sight
Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Record Counts


Jo showed me her blood counts last night and I immediately assumed foul play. Platelets at 232,000 and white blood cells at 6.2. This had to be a hoax. Dr. Alvarez had hoped Jo's white blood cells would get to 4 before her most recent surgery. Jo's platelets haven't been over 200,000 in 4 years!

Jo swears the results have not been "doctored", but would Dr. Alvarez agree? Indeed these are truly miraculous numbers. They are also totally unexpected only 10 days after major surgery.

The only thing in our lives that has changed recently is the bone-chilling cold temperatures in the Denver area. Is it possible these freezing cold days have caused Jo's increased blood counts? If so, would it be beneficial to move to Alaska? Is there an igloo in our future? Stay tuned.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Anna's Tub-Side Manner

Jo stopped her pain medication today and switched over to Tylenol. The incision looks to be about the same size as the incision was on her left arm for anybody who has seen that - probably a good 6 inches.

The third day after surgery is always a big deal because Jo gets to take a bath or a shower. After supper on Monday night, I said to Anna, "Let's go and help Momma with her tubby." Well, Anna completely latched on to that idea. She ran to get a few toys for Momma and a bucket for pouring water over Momma's head. Anna washed Momma's hair and carefully rinsed her incision. When Jo's tubby was finished Anna said to her, "Even after you're better, we can still help you with your tubby."

Anna helped Jo with a tubby again tonight. This time, when the tubby was finished Anna said, "Okay, now you can play for five minutes."

Sunday, December 07, 2008

The Home Stretch?

Jo came home from the hospital today and she is doing well. She's taking some hefty pain medication and she slept much of today. There is just something about this time that seems final. When we left the hospital today, it felt more like "goodbye" than "see you next time". P/SL has been great, but if we never go back there, I won't miss the hot dogs, the pizza or onion rings.

Last night I gave Jo a tour of the entire hospital from my perspective. In 8 trips, she had never seen the cafeteria, the gift shop or the surgery waiting area where all the furniture had been replaced since visit #7. We even tried to sneak a peak at the newborns on floor 3 and we were pleasantly surprised to find volunteers handing out bowls of clam chowder.

All things must come to an end. P/SL will still be near and dear to our hearts for the next 6 to 8 months as the last medical bills get straightened out and reconciled, but we are headed down the home stretch. Our two-year "partnership" with P/SL has been necessary and extremely beneficial. We will never be able to say "thank you" enough. At the same time, it's time for us to move on.

Friday, December 05, 2008

Eight is Enough

I know, I know. This was probably the most predictable title I have ever used. It just seems appropriate.

We got home from Japan on Tuesday night and Wednesday morning Jo went to see Dr. Alvarez to get the okay to head into surgery. Jo's platelets had dropped below 100,000 and her white blood cells had dropped to an unacceptable level for surgery. 9 and 12 hour plane flights definitely take a toll on the body and this will be something I will run past the NIH doctors when we see them this spring.

On our way to the hospital today, we stopped to get Jo's blood checked again and her white cells had come up to 3.8. Dr. Alvarez had wanted them to get above 4, but Dr. Kelly felt that 3.8 was good enough. At 1:45pm, Jo went into the operating room for her 8th surgery in less than 25 months. Dr. Kelly said that everything went perfectly and she expects a total success.

Jo's ball joint in her right shoulder had collapsed - think of taking your thumb and making a dent in a Styrofoam ball. Dr. Kelly scraped out the area of collapsed bone and replaced it with a metal "button". This button is a piece of metal that can be expanded to be the exact size of the area Dr. Kelly created and that small section of shoulder bone is essentially resurfaced. The end result is the shoulder bone once again having the proper shape to move normally in the socket.

Jo is expected to come home tomorrow around noon. She will have help from my mom for the next two weeks and then her mom until mid-January. By then we expect Jo to be completely pain free with somewhere close to 95% or more range of motion in all of her joints.

Two years ago, I remember sitting in Dr. Kelly's office and she told us not to think too far into the future. She said, "The reality is I could schedule you for 2 full years of surgery." At the time I didn't believe her. I believe her her now.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

A Quick Trip to Japan and Now Back to Business


Over the Thanksgiving weekend, Jo and I travelled to Nagoya, Japan for the 15th annual Crazy County Dance Festival. Martha Ogasawara and the Nagoya C/W Dance Fans first brought us to Japan 11 years ago and this was now our 4th trip to teach dance in Japan. We had an absolutely fabulous time and we can't thank our Japanese friends enough for their never-ending hospitality. The entire weekend was first class!

We were joined in Japan by Scott Blevins from Chicago. He was the first American guest instructor 12 years ago at Nagoya's 3rd event. Scott and Jo have known each other for many years through the dance world and they are often considered mirror images of each other in terms of their wonderful choreography and technique.

On Friday, Jo heads back to the operating room at Presbyterian/St. Luke's Hospital for a pretty major surgery on her right shoulder. I'll explain the details of the repair on Friday. For now, just realize that she cannot lift her arm above her head, she cannot put it behind her back and she can barely reach across the front of her body.

For those of you who know Jo well, it's impossible to keep her down and the following video demonstrates that. Jo is dancing a beautiful new dance called "Feel", choreographed by Scott Blevins who is dancing alongside Jo. Keep in mind that this is all done with less than 50% range of motion in Jo's right arm. (No trick photography was used in the making of this video.)

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Happy Veteran's Day!


There is something special about College Football just about anywhere you live, but the Service Academies are a truly unique experience. Before this weekend's game, an F-15 and two F-22s flew over the stadium. Each of the three planes turned on their afterburners directly over the stadium and zoomed straight up into the sky. The entire stadium shook and the crowd went absolutely wild. I was holding Anna and she was so scared she tried to dive to the ground. I was pretty spooked myself and I really have no idea how I held on to her.

We are less than a month from surgery #8. The date has been set for December 5th, but just in case of any last minute changes I have purchased an S-CDS (Surgery Change Date Swap). It's very similary to a Credit Default Swap except that it insures me against any financial losses incurred should the surgery date have to be moved. I learned this technique by studying the business practices of AIG. I'm not quite at $62 Trillion, but I'm on my way.

In case you are wondering what Anna was for Halloween...


I had to chase Prince Charming off with a baseball bat.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Combating the Rising Cost of Healthcare


I cannot be sure that either of the Presidential candidates will come up with a reasonable solution to the rising cost of healthcare. For that reason, we have taken matters into our own hands. At just 4 months past her 3rd birthday Anna has started her medical training. How old was Doogie Howser when he got his MD?

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Dr. Kelly - Did you miss us?

After a nice hiatus away from the operating room, Jo is back on Dr. Kelly's schedule. She will have surgery on her right shoulder on Friday, December 5th. Jo's left shoulder feels tremendous. The bone graft that was implanted into her left shoulder has been an incredible success.

As Jo's left shoulder has gotten better and better, her right shoulder has started to deteriorate. About 45 days ago, she had shooting pains in her right shoulder for about 3 days. Dr. Kelly took some x-rays, but couldn't find anything. About 3 weeks ago, Jo started to have trouble with her range of motion. As of this morning, she can get her arm over her head, but it is not pretty.

Last week a CT Scan (or maybe it was an MRI) confirmed that Jo's shoulder has started to collapse and it is cracked. My first thought was that it is time for another bone graft just like the left shoulder. Unfortunately, the body does not take well to a second graft. Somehow, the body knows about the first graft and tends to reject follow-on grafts.

Dr. Kelly will be going into Jo's shoulder and again "cleaning out" any pockets of necrosis. Then she will install a "button" on Jo's shoulder bone that is supposed to prevent further collapse and give her back her range of motion. I'll have to find out the technical name for this surgery and get back to you on that.

For the next 70 days or so, we will baby that shoulder and try to prevent any further collapse. There is good news...nothing else hurts and Jo only goes to get her blood checked every two weeks.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Aplastic Anemia Hits the Olympic Swimming Pool

This past weekend, Jo and I were able to catch a bit of the Olympics on television. Did you see Michael Phelps win one of his races by 1/100th of a second? Did you see Dara Torres lose her race by 1/100th of a second? Unbelievable!

Just before Torres' race, the announcer mentioned that her coach was not able to be with her. He was in a hospital bed in Bethesda, MD being treated for a life-threatening blood disorder. I couldn't believe my ears. I ran to the computer and typed "Dara Torres Coach" into Google. Sure enough. In late July, he was diagnosed with Aplastic Anemia at the age of 58.

"It's really, really bad," Lohberg said by phone to the Miami Herald late Thursday. "They told me I might last only weeks, or maybe even days. It's bad. I knew something was wrong because I was very tired and out of breath, but I thought it was from my herniated disk and all the stress. Turns out it's a disaster. I have nothing left in my blood, and I have to get to the specialists by 8 a.m. Friday because without treatment, I might not make it to Monday."

Three days later Lohberg was interviewed from the NIH and it sounded like Dr. Young, Dr. Scheinberg, Dr. Childs, Dr. Sloand or Olga had helped him understand that yes it's bad, but the NIH is really, really good at what they do. I was able to find his blog and as of today, he is still at the NIH recovering from his ATG treatment.

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Jo saw Dr. Kelly last week for a quick shoulder checkup. Jo's left shoulder is doing awesome and she says it feels great. Dr. Kelly says the bone graft is healing perfectly and she considers the surgery a 100% success.

Jo's right shoulder is still a bit of a problem. Dr. Kelly says the bones actually look very good, so it may soon be time to get the arthroscopic guy to take another look. I think the real problem is that the left shoulder feels so good that Jo is constantly reminded that the right shoulder is still not quite right.

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

Living Passionately

A Zen poet said, “A person who is a master in the art of living makes little distinction between their work and their play, their labor and their leisure, their mind and their body, their education and their recreation, their love and their religion. They hardly know which is which and simply pursue their vision of excellence and grace, whatever they do, leaving others to decide whether they are working or playing. To them they are always doing both."

At Church last Sunday, the congregation was treated to a special musical performance by a group called Selah. They were phenomenal, but what really touched me was the passion displayed by the pianist. Every note he played seemed as if it were the most important note ever played on a piano. His body language told the story of the music in such an incredible way that even the deaf would have “heard” the music.

I started taking dance lessons over 15 years ago and I remember an early teacher telling me that my goal was to dance in such a way that somebody who couldn’t hear the music would still know exactly what the music sounded like. I must admit, this is still tough for me to accomplish today.

When I met Jo almost 14 years ago I was introduced to a level of “passion” I had not experienced before. I specifically remember watching Jo line dance to Scooter Lee’s Honky Tonk Twist. I was absolutely shocked how clearly her movement told the entire story of the song.

Of course, Jo is in the entertainment business and all entertainers (to some extent) try to bring this level of passion to their performance. The difference is that Jo doesn’t have to “bring” anything to her performance. It’s her natural way of being. How do I know this? Because I see that same level of incredible passion in her everyday life.

I’ve been asked many times over the years, “What’s Jo like when she isn’t ‘on’”? If you’ve had the pleasure of spending time with her outside of her professional career, you know what I know. There is no “off”. She has an incredible way of bringing intense passion to practically every moment of every day. I’ve seen her do this when she’s planning a baby shower, when she’s making greeting cards, when she and Anna are planting flowers or when she’s decorating the house. It seems like every single day she sees an opportunity to take an ordinary experience and make it extraordinary.

About 5 years ago I saw a wonderful presentation by a man named Charlie “Tremendous” Jones. All professional speakers bring passion to their presentations, but this man was different. This man’s passion cut straight through to my core. I saw Tremendous Jones in the hallway later that day and before I even introduced myself, I was drawn into him and I gave him a big hug. It was like he had some sort of magnetic pull like a black hole drawing people into him.

I know some of you have spent time with Jo away from the dance floor and you know that her passion for life creates this same sort of magnetic pull no matter what she’s doing. I still don’t comprehend exactly how she does it, but I sure am glad I caved in and agreed to take a line dance lesson back in the spring of 1993. I could have never guessed the path that would lead to just a little over a year later.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Goodbye 2, Hello 3


Anna turned 3 today. Can you believe it? This is Anna's first non-weekend birthday so it was pretty quiet. We put 3 candles in a Blueberry Muffin and sang Happy Birthday. Maybe we'll get a cake for the neighborhood kids this weekend.

Jo's shoulder is recovering nicely. This past weekend it was put to the test at the Rocky Mountain Swing Dance Convention. My spies let me know that Jo actually danced a few songs with a couple of the best guys. They were under specific instructions to only lead moves that didn't require the use of her left arm. Overall, her shoulder held up pretty well.

Jo sees Dr. Kelly next week for a checkup and hopefully she'll be able to start more aggressive physical therapy.

Sunday, June 08, 2008

A Rare Talent

At church this morning, the band and a small group of singers performed a mellow, but very powerful song. As soon as the band began to play, the tune immediately had me dancing in my head. You almost have to know West Coast Swing to really understand. This was the kind of song that would have been played at about 2am.

I don’t know if I can really explain what goes on inside me when I hear a song like this. Over the past 14 years, I’ve danced to songs like this with Jo more times than I could possible count. Normally I’m good about sharing Jo with all of the other guys that want to get a dance with her, but every now and then a song comes on that I have to have and I pull out my “husband card”. This is the card that basically says as long as I don’t abuse the privilege, I get to cut straight to the front of the line any time I wish.

As I sat there this morning, tears formed in my eyes. These are the tears that come from life experiences that seem absolutely perfect. This might be the birth of a child or some other significant event in your life or it might be a dance with Jo when the right song comes on.

Unless you’ve danced with Jo, you may find this hard to comprehend. If you have danced with her, you know she can make life seem completely perfect for the length of that song – if it’s the right song. The birth of a child is rare. Really good songs can be purchased and then played over and over again.

As this song at church began to head down the home stretch, a couple of people in the middle section felt compelled to stand. Within seconds, the entire congregation (probably 1,500 people) was standing. I was already in an amazing place, dancing with Jo in my head. Add the energy of 1,500 people being overcome by a powerful musical performance and I almost lost it.

I know this Blog tends to chronicle the difficulties Jo has experienced with her health lately. Keep in mind that if I did a Blog of all the amazing ways we’ve been blessed in the last 14 years it would probably be 100 times as long.

Thursday, June 05, 2008

Shoulder Update

Jo and Anna have been in Texas for two weeks doing extensive shoulder rehabilitation consisting mostly of swatting East Texas bugs all day. They will be home next week just in time for Swingtime in the Rockies.

Jo says her shoulder feels pretty good. She'll be doing some teaching and emceeing at Swingtime, but her shoulder will not be ready for any serious dancing. Sorry guys. As you all know, we always have great intentions with our fancy dance moves, but now and then a lead goes astray and we end up apologizing as our partner grimaces in pain and says, "Oh don't worry about that. It was my fault." Or does that only happen to the women I dance with?

Thursday, May 15, 2008

We Have a Winner

According to Jo, every year after the Miss America Pageant, Miss Texas has a big hot dog in the Philadelphia airport on her way back to Texas. Congratulations go out to Jill and Anthony Martini. I have already seen your prize - absolutely beautiful. Can you believe that she has gone 21 years between hot dogs? She says she doesn't have anything against them. She claims to just not have had many opportunities.

Jo's shoulder is doing well. The bandages have all worked themselves off and the incisions appears to have healed nicely. She doesn't say anything about being in any pain, but I can tell that she is pretty careful with that arm.

Friday, May 09, 2008

A Clue

Jo saw Dr. Kelly today and they took a look at an x-ray of Jo's shoulder. Everything appears to be healing well. Jo's pain level is getting better every day, but Dr. Kelly says she has to take it easy for at least 6 weeks.

Yes, 21 years ago was the Miss America pageant that Jo competed in and the correct answer does have something to do with that time frame. More specifically, it has something to do with an activity after the pageant was over, but before she returned to Texas. Apparantly, this was a tradition for every Miss Texas upon leaving Atlantic City. Before your mind heads into a Casino, keep in mind that what she did was considered very "All-American".

Guesses will continue to be accepted.

Monday, May 05, 2008

For the First Time in 21 Years...

Like she normally does, Jo has worked hard to transition from the heavy pain killers to Tylenol as quickly as possible. I can tell she is in a good amount of pain, but every time I ask she says, "It feels pretty good."

This was quite a bit bigger incision than any of Jo's previous shoulder surgeries so a longer recovery is only natural. I have not seen any sign of her abandoning her sling. We are approaching a week and for the previous shoulder surgeries, the sling was long gone by this time.

We have Meema for another 2 weeks here in Denver and then Jo and Anna will head on down to Texas for a little R&R with Memaw Rita. Anna is in 7th heaven because she and Meema have ice cream together every night.

Oh yeah, you probably want to know about the 21 year streak that has come to an end. This past weekend, Jo did something that she has not done in 21 years. Now that I think about it, why don't we pause and take a moment to hear from the viewing audience. If you think you can guess what Jo did this past weekend for the first time in 21 years, leave your guess as a comment on the blog. The winning guess (closest guess) will receive a set of hand-made gift cards from Jo this summer. If you didn't know this, Jo took several craft classes a few years back and she makes the most beautiful hand-made gift cards you have ever seen.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Kill Ratio Below 25%

It's not even 5:00pm and Jo has been cleared to go home. We should have time to stop at the Cherry Creek Grill on our way home for a quick order of Spinach Dip - exact same Spinach Dip we get at Houstons. If you think I'm kidding then you don't know Jo. She may nod off a few times while bringing a chip to her mouth, but that is not nearly as dangerous as when she drinks hot tea in the morning.

Our nurse's name is Cindy. This is at least the 3rd time that Cindy has taken care of Jo in the last 18 months. Today we found out that Cindy goes to the same church as us and she even goes at the same time. Last year she went on a cruise sponsored by the church with two of our very best friends, Gary and Kathy Weimer. Small world, eh?

You are probably anxiously awaiting my explanation of the "kill ratio". Jo's morphine pump will allow her to give herself a "shot of happiness" every 8 minutes. The machine keeps track of how many total shots she gets and it also tracks the total number of attempted shots. Jo successfully gave herself 25 shots of morphine. She pushed the button trying to get a shot 107 times.

Sadly, Jo's morphine pump was taken away from her this morning. They said something about the button being worn out. She is on oral pain killers. I have already checked the Internet and I have found nothing that suggests any problems that can occur when pain killers are mixed with spinach.

The Morning After

Jo had kind of a rough night. She has a morphine pump for her pain, but in the middle of the night she couldn't stay awake long enough to push the pump. She would wake up in tremendous pain and then fall asleep before she could push the pump. There are pros and cons to being a good sleeper.

Dr. Kelly mentioned that the shoulder pain could be even more than what Jo experienced with her hip replacements. We'll have to wait until Jo feels better and see if we can get her to give us a comparison.

The piece of bone that was transplanted into her shoulder was described as the shape of a mushroom with the top being about the size of a half dollar. The reason the surgery took so long is that the hole that the new bone goes into has to be created very slowly and carefully so that the new piece of bone fits as well as possible. The last thing you want to have happen is to put the new bone in the hole and then find out the hole was too big!

Jo is resting in her hospital room. She is expected to come home tomorrow night or Saturday morning.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Lucky Number 7

Last week, Jo got a call that a bone was available for her shoulder. We were given about a day to decide if she wanted to go forward with this bone or if she would pass. We decided to go for it and plans were put in motion. Yesterday, Meema flew to Denver to help with Anna and Jo went into surgery about 4:30pm today. Dr. Kelly says this surgery could take 4+ hours, so forgive me if I don't update the blog tonight.

Dr. Kelly will take a piece of bone out of Jo's shoulder and replace it with the donor bone that is about the size of a half-dollar. The new bone will be pinned in and over time it should give Jo's shoulder the shape needed to relieve her pain and also give her more range of motion.

Jo is expected to be in the hospital for 2 or 3 nights. Today we joined the hospital's Frequent Flyer Program. For $15 per year, Jo always gets a private room if one is available and I get $6 credit per day at the cafeteria. They do make a great Bacon Cheeseburger! Actually, I'm not sure that I have ever had a bad Bacon Cheeseburger.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

NIH - The Rest of the Story


When Jo and I went to the NIH 2 weeks ago, there was actually a fair amount of concern stirred up when we talked about what has been going on the past year. Everybody was extremely concerned about the blood clot Jo had in her head last March shortly after her 2nd hip replacement. A blood clot in your head is very serious. It could lead to a stroke and irreversible brain damage. What surprised us a bit was that it seemed like ancient history to us.

Well, a blood clot is often an indicator used to by the NIH to make a decision to have a bone marrow transplant done, especially in a case like Jo’s where she has a perfect match donor. A bone marrow transplant is extremely difficult and has its own set of risks and jumping to transplant is never a decision made lightly. In Jo’s case, there is enough data to blame the clot on, that we have decided that we can continue down the path we are currently on and keep the bone marrow transplant as a backup plan.

Jo’s treatment for Aplastic Anemia is considered a tremendous success. Her bone marrow is producing good amounts of blood and most importantly, she does not require any blood transfusions. However, Jo also has the PNH problem where her red blood cells have a tendency to burst creating a bunch of cell garbage in her blood that puts her at high risk of clots. For that reason, she is on blood thinners at all times.

Blood thinners create their own problems. Jo has had to have several major surgeries and she will require a few more. When you have surgery, you cannot have thin blood. About 4 to 5 days before any surgery Jo stops taking Coumadin, her primary blood thinner. Coumadin stays in your system about 4 to 5 days, so she has to stop it in time for it to be completely out of her system before surgery. During that 5-day stretch, she gives herself shots of Lovonox, which only stays in her system about 12 hours. As long as her last shot is 12 hours or more before surgery, she can go into the operating room without any blood thinners in her system.

After surgery, Jo starts back on Coumadin, but it takes 5 days to build up. She again gives herself Lovonox shots for 5 days to “bridge” the gap until the Coumadin is built up. This “bridge” is extremely important. A total hip replace is a very significant surgery with a large incision and a lot of potential for bleeding. Jo’s surgeon, Dr. Kelly, had an extremely delicate job to do in managing Jo’s recovery because thin blood was necessary to prevent clots, but keeping Jo’s blood too thin could also cause problems with the healing process of Jo’s wound.

After checking as many records as possible, it appears that Jo was given 2 Lovonox shots in the hospital after that hip replacement. It is very possible that she went through a short period of time where her blood was not as thin as her hematologist would have liked it and this could be when the clot was formed. We’ll never know for sure, but the NIH doctors agree that there is enough data to suggest a reason for the clot. The other scenario would be to find that the clot happened even though Jo was fully “juiced-up” on blood thinners – Dr. Alvarez calls that “therapeutic”. I have no idea what that means. If that were the case, we would already be making plans for a bone marrow transplant.

Yes, Jo does have the PNH problem, but relative to other PNH patients she has it easy. She does not require any transfusions, she only had a handful of hemolytic episodes in the past year (lot’s of red cells bursting) and most of her hemolytic episodes have been fairly light. Therefore, after 2 weeks of discussions we have chosen to stay the course.

The other thing brought up after we talked about the blood clot was the possible use of Soliris – the “miracle drug” that was approved by the FDA last March. PNH patients that take Soliris do appear to experience blood clots less often than patients that do not take it. On the other hand, Soliris also has its issues. First, it is a probable commitment for life and there is no data yet on the long-term effects of taking it. Dr. Alvarez knows of one patient taking it here in the Denver area and after a couple of years now, that patient is beginning to have mixed results. Secondly, the drug costs $480,000 per year. Thirdly, most of the people (maybe all) have PNH problems more severe than Jo’s.

The question becomes this, “If Jo’s blood clot can be blamed on her level of blood thinners after her surgery, is her PNH condition bad enough to warrant the use of Soliris?” I will tell you that the opinions are not unanimous.

Considering Jo has felt tremendous the past 12 months, it seems odd to even have had this discussion over the last 2 weeks. It has made us realize how narrow the tight rope really is. We are very fortunate to have the medical advisors that we do have. Primarily because of how good Jo is doing, we have decided to push forward without any major changes. There are some minor changes and I’ll explain those later.

On a side note, have you ever seen the 1976 Movie, “The Boy in the Plastic Bubble”? John Travolta played the “Bubble Boy”. (I know that most of you are probably more familiar with the Bubble Boy episode from Seinfeld.) The bubble boy was the son of hematologist at the NIH and he developed Aplastic Anemia. The progress made with this disease over the past 30 years has been absolutely incredible. The really neat part is that we found out that Dr. Alvarez was a resident at the NIH 30 years ago and he was actually assigned now and then to take care of the Bubble Boy! Small world, eh?

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter!


Today we had a "big adventure" for Easter. Last night the weather turned cold and snow began to cover the grass. It appeared that our trip to Coors Amphitheater for our church's Easter service could be in jeopardy. We woke up this morning to clear blue skies and very cold temperatures. We decided to take the risk of severe frostbite and venture out.

We decided to only drive half way to church. For the second half of the journey we jumped on the train. This was Anna's first experience with the Denver Light Rail and she loved it! After a short walk, we found our seats among the other 13,000 people at Coors Amphitheater.

As the sun began to rise and the choir began to sing the entire place warmed up fast. The energy was incredible! Anna's favorite part was the end when hundreds of balloons were released into the sky to the strains of the Hallelujah Chorus.

After Church, we enjoyed a wonderful brunch with our good friends, Gary and Kathy Weimer and their family. Three dogs were present which kept Anna busy the entire afternoon. Overall, today was just one of those perfect days where you can't help but be greatful to be alive. Happy Easter everybody!

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

NIH 2-Year Checkup

Yesterday, Jo and I were in Bethesda, MD for her 2-Year checkup. When we were there 2 years ago, construction had just begun on a brand new welcome center. It is now almost complete. This was our first trip to Bethesda without crutches since Jo's initial consultation in November, 2004. We found ourselves walking places where we were not used to walking and doing things we were not used to doing. It took a while to realize that we had never before walked around Bethesda with this much mobility.

Jo had a bone marrow aspiration, which is always the highlight of the trip. We did get to talk to Dr. Young, Dr. Scheinberg and Dr. Childs and I found out some interesting history. According to Olga who runs the hematology clinic at the NIH, Dr. Young has been doing research on Aplastic Anemia for 27 years. If you remember, Jo had 4 doses of ATG when she received her treatment, which made her very sick. Back in the old days, patients used to receive 31 days of ATG!!! I cannot even imagine how sick they must have been. Dr. Young and Dr. Childs are going to Vietnam next week to help set up a bone marrow transplant clinic of some sort.

As of today, Jo has officially stopped her Cyclosporin, the immunosuppressant drug she has been taking for the last 2+ years. She will be monitored closely for the next couple of weeks to make sure that she does not experience any sort of relapse after stopping the Cyclosporin.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Van Thompson 9/11/1928 - 3/4/2008


This will probably be the hardest blog I have written yet. Sadly, Jo’s Father Van Thompson, Sr. passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, March 4. We were in Texas for the funeral last weekend. Jo and Anna were able to stay until today.

I was blessed to have known Van for 14 years and grew to love and respect him greatly. He was a graceful man in many ways. Whether it was rounding up his herds of cattle, playing with his grandchildren, or dancing with his wife of 47 years, Rita, he was a gentleman in the true sense of the word. He was the real deal.

Jo told me she remembered that her "Daddy" was the person who first taught her to dance. At about age 5 she would stand on top of his feet and hold his hands as he taught her to do a waltz box. He obviously did a great job! Van lived a full life of almost 80 years and touched many people’s lives along the way. He will truly be missed. Please send out your prayers for the entire Thompson family as they remember a great husband, father and grandfather.

Jo and I will travel to the NIH tomorrow for her annual bone marrow check up. We are expecting good news and are looking forward to being able to taper Jo's medications. For those of you keeping track, we are now in month 25 of Jo's 18 month taper. Of course, we are also looking forward to our favorite meal of Spinach Dip and Grilled Chicken Salad at Houston's Restaurant which is right down the street from the NIH.

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

The Prospect Bone Fails Inspection

The bone that was hopefully going to allow Jo to have surgery later this week has failed inspection. Several tests were run to determine if it would be an appropriate bone for Jo's shoulder and for some reason it will not work. Jo and I are scheduled to do her annual visit to the NIH on March 18th, so the shoulder surgery will be put off until at least the end of March.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Throw Me a Bone

Jo got a call from Dr. Kelly's office yesterday letting us know that a bone has been located for her left shoulder partial bone transplant. We will get confirmation on Monday whether it's a "clean" bone that passes all the tests and if so, they will do surgery next Friday the 29th. I hope there isn't anything superstitious about having surgery on February 29th!