Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Goodbye 2, Hello 3


Anna turned 3 today. Can you believe it? This is Anna's first non-weekend birthday so it was pretty quiet. We put 3 candles in a Blueberry Muffin and sang Happy Birthday. Maybe we'll get a cake for the neighborhood kids this weekend.

Jo's shoulder is recovering nicely. This past weekend it was put to the test at the Rocky Mountain Swing Dance Convention. My spies let me know that Jo actually danced a few songs with a couple of the best guys. They were under specific instructions to only lead moves that didn't require the use of her left arm. Overall, her shoulder held up pretty well.

Jo sees Dr. Kelly next week for a checkup and hopefully she'll be able to start more aggressive physical therapy.

Sunday, June 08, 2008

A Rare Talent

At church this morning, the band and a small group of singers performed a mellow, but very powerful song. As soon as the band began to play, the tune immediately had me dancing in my head. You almost have to know West Coast Swing to really understand. This was the kind of song that would have been played at about 2am.

I don’t know if I can really explain what goes on inside me when I hear a song like this. Over the past 14 years, I’ve danced to songs like this with Jo more times than I could possible count. Normally I’m good about sharing Jo with all of the other guys that want to get a dance with her, but every now and then a song comes on that I have to have and I pull out my “husband card”. This is the card that basically says as long as I don’t abuse the privilege, I get to cut straight to the front of the line any time I wish.

As I sat there this morning, tears formed in my eyes. These are the tears that come from life experiences that seem absolutely perfect. This might be the birth of a child or some other significant event in your life or it might be a dance with Jo when the right song comes on.

Unless you’ve danced with Jo, you may find this hard to comprehend. If you have danced with her, you know she can make life seem completely perfect for the length of that song – if it’s the right song. The birth of a child is rare. Really good songs can be purchased and then played over and over again.

As this song at church began to head down the home stretch, a couple of people in the middle section felt compelled to stand. Within seconds, the entire congregation (probably 1,500 people) was standing. I was already in an amazing place, dancing with Jo in my head. Add the energy of 1,500 people being overcome by a powerful musical performance and I almost lost it.

I know this Blog tends to chronicle the difficulties Jo has experienced with her health lately. Keep in mind that if I did a Blog of all the amazing ways we’ve been blessed in the last 14 years it would probably be 100 times as long.

Thursday, June 05, 2008

Shoulder Update

Jo and Anna have been in Texas for two weeks doing extensive shoulder rehabilitation consisting mostly of swatting East Texas bugs all day. They will be home next week just in time for Swingtime in the Rockies.

Jo says her shoulder feels pretty good. She'll be doing some teaching and emceeing at Swingtime, but her shoulder will not be ready for any serious dancing. Sorry guys. As you all know, we always have great intentions with our fancy dance moves, but now and then a lead goes astray and we end up apologizing as our partner grimaces in pain and says, "Oh don't worry about that. It was my fault." Or does that only happen to the women I dance with?

Thursday, May 15, 2008

We Have a Winner

According to Jo, every year after the Miss America Pageant, Miss Texas has a big hot dog in the Philadelphia airport on her way back to Texas. Congratulations go out to Jill and Anthony Martini. I have already seen your prize - absolutely beautiful. Can you believe that she has gone 21 years between hot dogs? She says she doesn't have anything against them. She claims to just not have had many opportunities.

Jo's shoulder is doing well. The bandages have all worked themselves off and the incisions appears to have healed nicely. She doesn't say anything about being in any pain, but I can tell that she is pretty careful with that arm.

Friday, May 09, 2008

A Clue

Jo saw Dr. Kelly today and they took a look at an x-ray of Jo's shoulder. Everything appears to be healing well. Jo's pain level is getting better every day, but Dr. Kelly says she has to take it easy for at least 6 weeks.

Yes, 21 years ago was the Miss America pageant that Jo competed in and the correct answer does have something to do with that time frame. More specifically, it has something to do with an activity after the pageant was over, but before she returned to Texas. Apparantly, this was a tradition for every Miss Texas upon leaving Atlantic City. Before your mind heads into a Casino, keep in mind that what she did was considered very "All-American".

Guesses will continue to be accepted.

Monday, May 05, 2008

For the First Time in 21 Years...

Like she normally does, Jo has worked hard to transition from the heavy pain killers to Tylenol as quickly as possible. I can tell she is in a good amount of pain, but every time I ask she says, "It feels pretty good."

This was quite a bit bigger incision than any of Jo's previous shoulder surgeries so a longer recovery is only natural. I have not seen any sign of her abandoning her sling. We are approaching a week and for the previous shoulder surgeries, the sling was long gone by this time.

We have Meema for another 2 weeks here in Denver and then Jo and Anna will head on down to Texas for a little R&R with Memaw Rita. Anna is in 7th heaven because she and Meema have ice cream together every night.

Oh yeah, you probably want to know about the 21 year streak that has come to an end. This past weekend, Jo did something that she has not done in 21 years. Now that I think about it, why don't we pause and take a moment to hear from the viewing audience. If you think you can guess what Jo did this past weekend for the first time in 21 years, leave your guess as a comment on the blog. The winning guess (closest guess) will receive a set of hand-made gift cards from Jo this summer. If you didn't know this, Jo took several craft classes a few years back and she makes the most beautiful hand-made gift cards you have ever seen.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Kill Ratio Below 25%

It's not even 5:00pm and Jo has been cleared to go home. We should have time to stop at the Cherry Creek Grill on our way home for a quick order of Spinach Dip - exact same Spinach Dip we get at Houstons. If you think I'm kidding then you don't know Jo. She may nod off a few times while bringing a chip to her mouth, but that is not nearly as dangerous as when she drinks hot tea in the morning.

Our nurse's name is Cindy. This is at least the 3rd time that Cindy has taken care of Jo in the last 18 months. Today we found out that Cindy goes to the same church as us and she even goes at the same time. Last year she went on a cruise sponsored by the church with two of our very best friends, Gary and Kathy Weimer. Small world, eh?

You are probably anxiously awaiting my explanation of the "kill ratio". Jo's morphine pump will allow her to give herself a "shot of happiness" every 8 minutes. The machine keeps track of how many total shots she gets and it also tracks the total number of attempted shots. Jo successfully gave herself 25 shots of morphine. She pushed the button trying to get a shot 107 times.

Sadly, Jo's morphine pump was taken away from her this morning. They said something about the button being worn out. She is on oral pain killers. I have already checked the Internet and I have found nothing that suggests any problems that can occur when pain killers are mixed with spinach.

The Morning After

Jo had kind of a rough night. She has a morphine pump for her pain, but in the middle of the night she couldn't stay awake long enough to push the pump. She would wake up in tremendous pain and then fall asleep before she could push the pump. There are pros and cons to being a good sleeper.

Dr. Kelly mentioned that the shoulder pain could be even more than what Jo experienced with her hip replacements. We'll have to wait until Jo feels better and see if we can get her to give us a comparison.

The piece of bone that was transplanted into her shoulder was described as the shape of a mushroom with the top being about the size of a half dollar. The reason the surgery took so long is that the hole that the new bone goes into has to be created very slowly and carefully so that the new piece of bone fits as well as possible. The last thing you want to have happen is to put the new bone in the hole and then find out the hole was too big!

Jo is resting in her hospital room. She is expected to come home tomorrow night or Saturday morning.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Lucky Number 7

Last week, Jo got a call that a bone was available for her shoulder. We were given about a day to decide if she wanted to go forward with this bone or if she would pass. We decided to go for it and plans were put in motion. Yesterday, Meema flew to Denver to help with Anna and Jo went into surgery about 4:30pm today. Dr. Kelly says this surgery could take 4+ hours, so forgive me if I don't update the blog tonight.

Dr. Kelly will take a piece of bone out of Jo's shoulder and replace it with the donor bone that is about the size of a half-dollar. The new bone will be pinned in and over time it should give Jo's shoulder the shape needed to relieve her pain and also give her more range of motion.

Jo is expected to be in the hospital for 2 or 3 nights. Today we joined the hospital's Frequent Flyer Program. For $15 per year, Jo always gets a private room if one is available and I get $6 credit per day at the cafeteria. They do make a great Bacon Cheeseburger! Actually, I'm not sure that I have ever had a bad Bacon Cheeseburger.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

NIH - The Rest of the Story


When Jo and I went to the NIH 2 weeks ago, there was actually a fair amount of concern stirred up when we talked about what has been going on the past year. Everybody was extremely concerned about the blood clot Jo had in her head last March shortly after her 2nd hip replacement. A blood clot in your head is very serious. It could lead to a stroke and irreversible brain damage. What surprised us a bit was that it seemed like ancient history to us.

Well, a blood clot is often an indicator used to by the NIH to make a decision to have a bone marrow transplant done, especially in a case like Jo’s where she has a perfect match donor. A bone marrow transplant is extremely difficult and has its own set of risks and jumping to transplant is never a decision made lightly. In Jo’s case, there is enough data to blame the clot on, that we have decided that we can continue down the path we are currently on and keep the bone marrow transplant as a backup plan.

Jo’s treatment for Aplastic Anemia is considered a tremendous success. Her bone marrow is producing good amounts of blood and most importantly, she does not require any blood transfusions. However, Jo also has the PNH problem where her red blood cells have a tendency to burst creating a bunch of cell garbage in her blood that puts her at high risk of clots. For that reason, she is on blood thinners at all times.

Blood thinners create their own problems. Jo has had to have several major surgeries and she will require a few more. When you have surgery, you cannot have thin blood. About 4 to 5 days before any surgery Jo stops taking Coumadin, her primary blood thinner. Coumadin stays in your system about 4 to 5 days, so she has to stop it in time for it to be completely out of her system before surgery. During that 5-day stretch, she gives herself shots of Lovonox, which only stays in her system about 12 hours. As long as her last shot is 12 hours or more before surgery, she can go into the operating room without any blood thinners in her system.

After surgery, Jo starts back on Coumadin, but it takes 5 days to build up. She again gives herself Lovonox shots for 5 days to “bridge” the gap until the Coumadin is built up. This “bridge” is extremely important. A total hip replace is a very significant surgery with a large incision and a lot of potential for bleeding. Jo’s surgeon, Dr. Kelly, had an extremely delicate job to do in managing Jo’s recovery because thin blood was necessary to prevent clots, but keeping Jo’s blood too thin could also cause problems with the healing process of Jo’s wound.

After checking as many records as possible, it appears that Jo was given 2 Lovonox shots in the hospital after that hip replacement. It is very possible that she went through a short period of time where her blood was not as thin as her hematologist would have liked it and this could be when the clot was formed. We’ll never know for sure, but the NIH doctors agree that there is enough data to suggest a reason for the clot. The other scenario would be to find that the clot happened even though Jo was fully “juiced-up” on blood thinners – Dr. Alvarez calls that “therapeutic”. I have no idea what that means. If that were the case, we would already be making plans for a bone marrow transplant.

Yes, Jo does have the PNH problem, but relative to other PNH patients she has it easy. She does not require any transfusions, she only had a handful of hemolytic episodes in the past year (lot’s of red cells bursting) and most of her hemolytic episodes have been fairly light. Therefore, after 2 weeks of discussions we have chosen to stay the course.

The other thing brought up after we talked about the blood clot was the possible use of Soliris – the “miracle drug” that was approved by the FDA last March. PNH patients that take Soliris do appear to experience blood clots less often than patients that do not take it. On the other hand, Soliris also has its issues. First, it is a probable commitment for life and there is no data yet on the long-term effects of taking it. Dr. Alvarez knows of one patient taking it here in the Denver area and after a couple of years now, that patient is beginning to have mixed results. Secondly, the drug costs $480,000 per year. Thirdly, most of the people (maybe all) have PNH problems more severe than Jo’s.

The question becomes this, “If Jo’s blood clot can be blamed on her level of blood thinners after her surgery, is her PNH condition bad enough to warrant the use of Soliris?” I will tell you that the opinions are not unanimous.

Considering Jo has felt tremendous the past 12 months, it seems odd to even have had this discussion over the last 2 weeks. It has made us realize how narrow the tight rope really is. We are very fortunate to have the medical advisors that we do have. Primarily because of how good Jo is doing, we have decided to push forward without any major changes. There are some minor changes and I’ll explain those later.

On a side note, have you ever seen the 1976 Movie, “The Boy in the Plastic Bubble”? John Travolta played the “Bubble Boy”. (I know that most of you are probably more familiar with the Bubble Boy episode from Seinfeld.) The bubble boy was the son of hematologist at the NIH and he developed Aplastic Anemia. The progress made with this disease over the past 30 years has been absolutely incredible. The really neat part is that we found out that Dr. Alvarez was a resident at the NIH 30 years ago and he was actually assigned now and then to take care of the Bubble Boy! Small world, eh?

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter!


Today we had a "big adventure" for Easter. Last night the weather turned cold and snow began to cover the grass. It appeared that our trip to Coors Amphitheater for our church's Easter service could be in jeopardy. We woke up this morning to clear blue skies and very cold temperatures. We decided to take the risk of severe frostbite and venture out.

We decided to only drive half way to church. For the second half of the journey we jumped on the train. This was Anna's first experience with the Denver Light Rail and she loved it! After a short walk, we found our seats among the other 13,000 people at Coors Amphitheater.

As the sun began to rise and the choir began to sing the entire place warmed up fast. The energy was incredible! Anna's favorite part was the end when hundreds of balloons were released into the sky to the strains of the Hallelujah Chorus.

After Church, we enjoyed a wonderful brunch with our good friends, Gary and Kathy Weimer and their family. Three dogs were present which kept Anna busy the entire afternoon. Overall, today was just one of those perfect days where you can't help but be greatful to be alive. Happy Easter everybody!

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

NIH 2-Year Checkup

Yesterday, Jo and I were in Bethesda, MD for her 2-Year checkup. When we were there 2 years ago, construction had just begun on a brand new welcome center. It is now almost complete. This was our first trip to Bethesda without crutches since Jo's initial consultation in November, 2004. We found ourselves walking places where we were not used to walking and doing things we were not used to doing. It took a while to realize that we had never before walked around Bethesda with this much mobility.

Jo had a bone marrow aspiration, which is always the highlight of the trip. We did get to talk to Dr. Young, Dr. Scheinberg and Dr. Childs and I found out some interesting history. According to Olga who runs the hematology clinic at the NIH, Dr. Young has been doing research on Aplastic Anemia for 27 years. If you remember, Jo had 4 doses of ATG when she received her treatment, which made her very sick. Back in the old days, patients used to receive 31 days of ATG!!! I cannot even imagine how sick they must have been. Dr. Young and Dr. Childs are going to Vietnam next week to help set up a bone marrow transplant clinic of some sort.

As of today, Jo has officially stopped her Cyclosporin, the immunosuppressant drug she has been taking for the last 2+ years. She will be monitored closely for the next couple of weeks to make sure that she does not experience any sort of relapse after stopping the Cyclosporin.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Van Thompson 9/11/1928 - 3/4/2008


This will probably be the hardest blog I have written yet. Sadly, Jo’s Father Van Thompson, Sr. passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, March 4. We were in Texas for the funeral last weekend. Jo and Anna were able to stay until today.

I was blessed to have known Van for 14 years and grew to love and respect him greatly. He was a graceful man in many ways. Whether it was rounding up his herds of cattle, playing with his grandchildren, or dancing with his wife of 47 years, Rita, he was a gentleman in the true sense of the word. He was the real deal.

Jo told me she remembered that her "Daddy" was the person who first taught her to dance. At about age 5 she would stand on top of his feet and hold his hands as he taught her to do a waltz box. He obviously did a great job! Van lived a full life of almost 80 years and touched many people’s lives along the way. He will truly be missed. Please send out your prayers for the entire Thompson family as they remember a great husband, father and grandfather.

Jo and I will travel to the NIH tomorrow for her annual bone marrow check up. We are expecting good news and are looking forward to being able to taper Jo's medications. For those of you keeping track, we are now in month 25 of Jo's 18 month taper. Of course, we are also looking forward to our favorite meal of Spinach Dip and Grilled Chicken Salad at Houston's Restaurant which is right down the street from the NIH.

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

The Prospect Bone Fails Inspection

The bone that was hopefully going to allow Jo to have surgery later this week has failed inspection. Several tests were run to determine if it would be an appropriate bone for Jo's shoulder and for some reason it will not work. Jo and I are scheduled to do her annual visit to the NIH on March 18th, so the shoulder surgery will be put off until at least the end of March.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Throw Me a Bone

Jo got a call from Dr. Kelly's office yesterday letting us know that a bone has been located for her left shoulder partial bone transplant. We will get confirmation on Monday whether it's a "clean" bone that passes all the tests and if so, they will do surgery next Friday the 29th. I hope there isn't anything superstitious about having surgery on February 29th!

Sunday, February 03, 2008

A New Plan

Earlier this year, Jo was given some news that we had kind of hoped would somehow resolve itself. Her left shoulder continues to hurt and we have known for a while that it had not healed just quite right. Jo was scheduled for knee surgery in early April, but that surgery has now been put on the back burner.

Jo's next surgery is going to be another surgery on her left shoulder - the third surgery for this shoulder. Dr. Kelly is going to take a piece of bone from the shoulder of a donor (no volunteers please - I think the donor has to be dead) and pin that piece of shoulder into Jo's existing shoulder. Over time this piece of new shoulder should grow together with her existing bone and prevent any further damage to the cartilage.

The ball of Jo's shoulder has collapsed slightly and it is rubbing against the cartilage causing pain and limited range of motion. Dr. Kelly says that there is a 90% chance that the bone transplant will take care of the pain and give Jo back her range of motion.

We are now on a waiting list for a bone donor. Once a match is made, Jo will have to have surgery within about 4 weeks. The recovery is expected to take a little longer than the previous shoulder surgeries with Jo being in a sling for 8 to 12 weeks.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

The Light at the End of the Tunnel!

Jo saw Dr. Kelly today and she received the stamp of approval to fly to Texas tomorrow for the Holidays. She needs to be on crutches a few more weeks, but her knee is coming along perfectly!

More importantly, Jo asked Dr. Kelly to x-ray her ankles and her elbows and it appears that no surgery will be necessary. All four joints looked great! She isn't 100% happy with Jo's left shoulder, though - the one that has already been operated on twice. We may need to revisit that shoulder again in the future.

Overall, this is the best news we have had in a long, long time. The idea of maybe being close to finish line should make the next knee surgery a lot easier.

By the way, Jo's platelets are up to 190,000! That's well over the bottom end of normal - 150,000. We are scheduled to go back the NIH in March for Jo's 2nd annual checkup. She is now in month 22 of her 18 month protocol for treatment of her Aplastic Anemia. Yes, I typed that correctly. The math doesn't quite work, does it?

Sunday, December 02, 2007

Deja Vu

Wow, the past couple of days have really brought back some memories that actually seem like years ago! Jo's knee surgery has definitely been more similar to her hip surgeries than her shoulder surgeries. There is no shortage of Percoset in the house!

Jo took her bandage off yesterday and she was able to shower today. Her knee is very swollen. She has had a tough time sleeping, but today she is starting to feel a bit better. I seem to remember Dr. Kelly saying that they went into her knee in 5 places and from the looks of it, that is very possible.

In some ways, this is the toughest recovery yet because Jo is not allowed to put weight on her knee. She was using crutches, but today we got out the walker. When she had her hips done, she was able to put weight on her hips very quickly and she walked with both feet. With the knee, she only puts weight on her one good foot. On the bright side, the incisions are considerably smaller than the hips, so that part of the healing process is expected to be much quicker.

On a Holiday note, you should hear Anna sing Jingle Bells. Talk about precious! I'll ask Meema to try to get a good video for the blog.

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Do You Remember "Groudhog Day"?

We are hoping to schedule Jo's next knee surgery for February 2nd, Groundhog Day. Do you remember the Bill Murray movie? Maybe some you remember Andie MacDowell more than you do Bill Murray? It sometimes feels like we are living the same day over and over again.

Jo's surgery had a slight weather delay. We left the house at 5:45am and snow was falling. Anna was in her Christmas dress ready to take a picture with Santa at school today. Jo and I felt a bit like reindeer with Baby Santa perched in her seat in the back. Everybody at the hospital was talking about how long it took to get to work. Dr. Kelly seemed a little flustered from the 3 to 5 mph average commute speed.

Jo did see her shadow and we are expecting a very short winter...I mean the surgery went as expected. Dr. Kelly says her cartilage looks great and she did inject some stem cells into one area of necrosis. The knee is a more complicated joint than the hip or the shoulder and getting to certain areas would require doing damage to other areas.

Okay, the truth is that I was pretty tired this morning and I didn't understand some of the things Dr. Kelly told me and what I did understand, I have already forgotten. Jo will have a follow-up with Dr. Kelly within the next 10 days and I'll make sure that better notes are taken!

For now, just think of a football player on the sidelines with his knee wrapped in ice. That's pretty much what we have going on here today.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

On Track for Wednesday


Anna has now finished her third Thanksgiving weekend, but this one was special because she took on many of the cooking duties. She seemed to be inspired by her new hat!

We are on track for an early morning show-time with Dr. Kelly on Wednesday morning for Jo's first knee surgery. We are hoping that the knees are similar to the shoulders and Jo is allowed to come home without staying overnight.

Our plan is to get Jo through two weeks in Denver and then send her and Anna down to Texas through Christmas and New Year's. Right now, Jo is being told that she will need to be on crutches for 4 to 6 weeks, but she was also expected to be on pain medication for more than 24 hours after each shoulder...